9 Ways to Include Children in a Wedding Ceremony
9 Easy Ways to Include Children in a Wedding
A marriage ceremony includes making promises for a future life together. When children are part of the new union, it is a precious gesture to include them.
Whether you are creating a blended family or an existing family, here are some beautiful ways to involve children of all ages in the ceremony.
- The children can hand out ceremony booklets to the guests on arrival
- They can be junior bridesmaids and groomsmen.
- You can write your children into your vows.
- Ask your children to walk you down the aisle.
- Have them blow bubbles or throw rose petals during the ceremony and photos.
- The children can act as ring bearers
- If they’re old enough, they can read a poem – ‘ A Lovely Love Story ’ by Edward Monkton is a favourite of mine. So cute!
- You can all sign a “Family Certificate’ – this is not the legal marriage certificate but allows the children to feel part of the new union in a formal way.
And another favourite…
9. You may wish to exchange a beautiful piece of jewellery that reminds them of this special day.
At a recent wedding, after exchanging rings, the groom went down on his knees to the flowergirl who was the daughter of his new wife. He presented her with a special ring to acknowledge she was part of the new union. There wasn’t a dry eye in the house !
Whatever you choose , the true message involving children in a wedding ceremony is…
about promising to be there for them, to support them and love them unconditionally.
Involving them in the ceremony not only gives them a role to play on the day but is a statement, in front of family and friends, of how important they are in your family.
Hope you find this information helpful in creating your dream wedding
